Sorry, I must grab this out again...
First a hello from Germany!
I have the same question and I don't think it's worth a "doh":
If wind is calm, as far as I know every airport has it's "favourite" active runways for landing and departing.
As we do have in Hamburg EDDH. If the wind is under 5 knots, the active for departing is 33 and for landing 23.
In FSX with no wind, I always have to taxi to the 05. It is a very long way to taxi. Since I have the MyTrafficX, the default runway is set to the 15! That is equal bad, because it is nearly the same far as the 05.
In ADE I found a setting like "active for landing" and "active for departure" or something like that. But that did not work

Anyways - I don't want to block a runway for departure - maybe some day there is a wind out of that direction, in that case, I would want to start over there, but not in the default!).
Does anybody know if there is a way to set a starting and landing favourite?
Thanks in advance and sorry for this long post..
Charly